CW: This episode contains discussions of suicide and SA. Imagine being eleven years old and told that you have what it takes to be a star. All you have to do to achieve this success is drop out of school, move out of your parents' house, go on a strict diet, train until you pass out, learn multiple languages, maybe get plastic surgery, possibly bleach your skin, never say the wrong thing, and be, well, "perfect." Oh, and you have to do this for at least 10, 13, maybe 19 years before finding out if you'll even make it as a performer. Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: 988lifeline.org Substance Abuse & Mental Health Services Administration: samhsa.gov South Korea Suicide Helpline: lifeline.or.kr  Episode Sources: âSouth Korea may look perfect, but behind the facade lies a devastating suicide crisisâ by Raphael Rashid, The Guardian, Apr 29, 2023 âDeath of âParasiteâ star puts spotlight on pressures facing South Korean celebritiesâ by Tara Subramaniam and Yoonjung Seo, CNN, Dec 29, 2023 ââLike a giant Squid Gameâ: soul searching in South Korea after latest celebrity suicideâ by Raphael Rashid and Justin McCurry, The Guardian, Feb 21, 2025 âBTS, Blackpink, Squid Game, kimchi ⊠whatâs the secret of South Koreaâs world-conquering culture?â by Justin McCurry, The Guardian, Mar 6, 2024 âCancel Culture, Pressure And An Ideal Image: What's Driving South Korean Celebrities To Suicideâ by Hardika Gupta, NDTV, Feb 17, 2025 "Kim Sae-Ron Death: Actress's Last Instagram Post Was A Tribute To ASTRO Member Moonbinâ NDTV, Feb 17, 2025 âA K-Pop Starâs Lonely Downward Spiralâ by Motoko Rich and John Yoon, The New York Times, Mar 1, 2024 âI have reported on 30 Korean celebrity suicides. The blame game never changesâ by Kim Dae-O, The Guardian, Jan 3, 2020 âThe dark side of South Korean pop musicâ by Lucy Williamson, BBC News, June 15, 2011 âThe Contracts Behind K-Popâ by Mariana Seagram, Woroni, Sep 19, 2017 âPROBLEMS WITH K-POP: RULES, SLAVES CONTRACTS, CYBERBULLYING AND LITTLE FOOD AND MONEYâ âWheesung, a South Korean R&B Singer, Is Found Dead at 43â by Jin Yu Young, The New York Times, Mar 14, 2025 âWheesung, South Korean Star Who Helped Bring R&B to K-Pop, Dead at 43â
CW: This episode contains discussions of suicide and SA. Imagine being eleven years old and told that you have what it takes to be a star. All you have to do to achieve this success is drop out of school, move out of your parents' house, go on a strict diet, train until you pass out, learn multiple languages, maybe get plastic surgery, possibly bleach your skin, never say the wrong thing, and be, well, "perfect." Oh, and you have to do this for at least 10, 13, maybe 19 years before finding out ...